Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Thomas Sargeson with the following comment:
Thomas Sargeson born 1st Oct 1819 in Cottingham East Yorkshire and died 1881 in Stratford upon Avon was my 2nd cousin 5x removed.He was the great nephew of my paternal great grandfather x5. He moved to Holbeach Lincs were he married a Mary Hayes (nee Speight),she died in 1846 and he re married Elizabeth Speight (Mary's sister)I believe the grave at The Holy Trinity is that of (MY) Thomas Sargeson and his wife Elizabeth. He was a glazier/plumber and I found a will on Ancestry which gives the date of death 27 Feb 1881. I would so appreciate it if you could forward an image of the monument for my family tree records so I can be sure this Thomas Sargeson really is my ancestorYours sincerelyMarion Shepherd